🌼Because You’re Worth It: Things Worth Spending On as a Woman

        by natadecoco

1. Comfortable Everyday Wear

   

Whether it’s a perfectly fitted pair of jeans, a blazer that makes you feel powerful, or high‑quality loungewear for days at home or clothes that make you feel good are worth every cent. When you wear something comfortable and well‑made, you carry yourself differently. It’s an investment in your daily comfort and confidence.

2. A Signature Fragrance

Fragrance is personal, it’s like an invisible accessory that speaks before you even say a word. Splurging on a perfume that feels like “you” is a way of celebrating your identity. Every time you wear it, you carry a little reminder of who you are and how you want to be remembered. Both of these perfumes and body mists from Elianto are my current faves to layer it together. 

3. Health and Wellness Investments

A gym membership you actually use, a quality yoga mat, or even regular health check‑ups, these are splurges that pay off in ways money can’t measure. Taking care of your body and mind is one of the best gifts you can give yourself as a woman navigating a busy world.

4. A Durable Water Bottle or Tumbler

It might sound simple, but a good insulated tumbler or water bottle encourages you to stay hydrated throughout the day. Some even come with sleek designs that make you feel good carrying them around beauty and practicality in one.

5. A Smartwatch That Fits Your Lifestyle

A smartwatch is more than just a trendy gadget, it can be a practical companion for daily life. From tracking your steps and heart rate to reminding you of important tasks, a good smartwatch helps you stay organized and motivated to care for your health. It’s a splurge that blends style with functionality, and it becomes something you rely on every single day.

 ⏳A Small Town, A New Chapter

                                         by natadecoco

                          

Leaving my childhood town meant walking away from everything that felt safe and familiar. I left behind friends who had been with me through every stage of growing up, neighbors who greeted me by name, and places that carried so many memories. There were streets I could walk with my eyes closed, a park where I spent countless afternoons, and little shops that felt like part of my routine. Saying goodbye to all of that wasn’t just about moving to a new address, it felt like leaving behind a piece of myself and a chapter of my life that shaped who I am.

Even though I now live somewhere new, those memories have never left me. Sometimes a song plays and instantly I’m back on my old street, riding my bike in the evening breeze. Sometimes a certain smell or taste brings me back to moments of laughter with my friends, or late-night talks under the stars. No matter where I go, those memories follow quietly, like a soft reminder of where I came from.

Starting over in a small, unfamiliar town was not easy. At first, every face was a stranger and every street felt cold and distant. I missed the comfort of knowing exactly where everything was, of bumping into someone I knew at every corner. There were days I felt out of place, as if I didn’t belong, and I questioned if I would ever feel at home again. But slowly, little by little, the unfamiliar began to feel lighter.

Over time, I started noticing small things that made the new town feel more welcoming. A neighbor’s smile, a café that became my favorite quiet spot, and a hidden walking path where I could think in peace. These little discoveries reminded me that every place has its own beauty, you just need time to see it. I began to feel less like a stranger and more like someone building a new chapter, carrying the old memories while making room for new ones.

Moving away taught me something important: growth often comes when we step out of our comfort zone. It’s painful to leave behind the places and people that shaped you, but it’s also a chance to find out who you are without them. My old town will always live in my heart, but this new place is slowly teaching me that home isn’t just where you start, it’s also where you choose to grow.

 🐣 Things I Wish I Knew Before Turning 20

    by natadecoco

 

🌷 It’s Okay to Let Go of Certain People

Some friendships and relationships won’t last forever and that’s perfectly fine. Before 20, I used to hold on tightly to people even when they no longer felt right in my life, just because I was scared of being alone. But letting go doesn’t mean you’re a bad friend; it means you’re making space for people who truly support and understand you. Sometimes, outgrowing people is a sign that you’re growing into yourself.

🌷 Set Boundaries Early and Without Guilt

One of the biggest lessons I wish I learned sooner is that it’s okay to say no. You don’t owe everyone your time or energy, and protecting your peace is not selfish, it’s necessary. Whether it’s declining a plan when you’re exhausted or walking away from a toxic relationship, setting boundaries will teach others how to treat you and teach yourself that you deserve respect.

🌷Take Care of Your Health Now, Not Later

When you’re young, it’s easy to ignore your health, thinking you’re too busy or too strong to worry about it. But taking care of your body early on eating well, exercising, staying hydrated, and getting enough sleep will save you from regrets later. It’s not about chasing a certain look; it’s about building a foundation that supports you for years to come.

🌷Don’t Feel Pressured to Have Life Figured Out

At 18 or 19, it feels like everyone is rushing somewhere choosing a career, planning a future, defining themselves. I wish I knew back then that it’s completely okay not to have all the answers yet. Your twenties are meant for exploring, learning, and even making mistakes. Give yourself permission to grow at your own pace.

🌸 Not Everyone Will Like You, and That’s a Good Thing

Before 20, I used to bend over backwards just to be liked by everyone around me. I changed parts of myself, agreed with things I didn’t truly believe in, just to avoid conflict or rejection. What I’ve learned since then is that not everyone is meant to like you and that’s okay. It means you’re living authentically. The right people will love you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be.

🌸 Failure Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Good Enough

When you’re a teenager, every setback can feel like the end of the world a bad grade, a rejection, or a missed opportunity. I wish I knew then that failure is part of growth. Every “no” or mistake teaches you something you can’t learn from success alone. Don’t let fear of failing hold you back from trying. You’re not supposed to have a perfect record; you’re supposed to learn.

🌸 Learn to Enjoy Your Own Company

Spending time alone doesn’t mean you’re lonely. In fact, learning to enjoy your own company is one of the most powerful things you can do for yourself. Before 20, I felt like I always needed friends around or constant plans to feel okay. But now I know that solitude can be peaceful, healing, and empowering.

 🎂 When Birthdays Lose Their Spark

by natadecoco 

As I grow older, I’ve slowly lost the excitement I used to have for birthdays. When I was a child, birthdays felt like magic, balloons, cake, laughter, and the pure thrill of blowing out candles while making a secret wish. But now, each time I lean forward to blow those candles away, there’s a soft, melancholic feeling that creeps in. It reminds me that time is moving, that everyone around me is also growing older, and that I can never step back into the carefree days of my childhood. By blowing out the candles, I’m not just marking another year, I’m quietly letting go of the person I was, knowing I won’t ever be that little kid again.

With every birthday, I feel as if life gently nudges me to move on and start a new chapter, even if I’m not ready. Yet instead of feeling excited about the future, there’s often a hollow space inside me on that day. I find myself wondering why the joy I used to feel is harder to find now. Wishes and surprises, the very things that once lit up my world, no longer carry the same sparkle. They’re kind gestures, and I’m grateful for them, but they don’t chase away that strange emptiness I feel. Birthdays have become something heavier, less about celebration and more about reflection, a quiet reminder that growing up comes with both new beginnings and little pieces of childhood we have to leave behind.

 

🎀 MY INSPIRATION CUTE OUTFIT WITH HIJAB 🎀

By Strawberryecah

Style is a way of expressing who we are without having to speak and for me wearing the hijab has never been a limit it has always been a beautiful part of my fashion journey. I love finding ways to dress modestly but still feel cute confident and true to myself. That balance between comfort and elegance between simplicity and sparkle — that’s where the magic happens.🌸

Whenever I scroll through Pinterest or Instagram I get inspired by hijabi girls who slay their outfits with grace and creativity. Whether it’s soft pastel tones flowy skirts oversized blazers or cute sneakers every look tells its own story. And that’s where I get my inspiration — from girls who stay true to their values while exploring fashion in their own unique way.🌸

Hijab fashion isn’t about following every trend. It’s about taking what you love and making it yours. It’s about layering with purpose choosing colors that reflect your mood and walking confidently knowing that you’re beautiful just the way you are.🌸

To all the girls out there wearing their hijab with pride while exploring style and self-expression — you inspire me. Keep being you. Keep dressing for yourself not for anyone else. Because modesty is powerful and fashion is even more beautiful when it comes with meaning.

 TWO GIRLS, ONE ISLAND, A WHOLE LOT OF MEMORIES 🌴🐢🛥️💕

By Strawberryecah

Just the two of us chasing the sun escaping the noise and creating memories that will live in our hearts forever. Our day trip to Pulau Redang was more than just a spontaneous adventure. It was a soulful escape a reminder that sometimes all you need is one good friend and the ocean breeze to feel alive again. ✨

It started with us stepping onto the boat for the very first time. We were both excited, giggling like kids, with the sea wind slapping our faces and our hair flying in all directions. But as the boat bounced with the waves… oh boy hello seasickness! 😵‍💫 We were a little dizzy, a little quiet, but still laughing through it all. Even with the nausea kicking in, we couldn’t stop smiling because the thrill of the adventure kept us going.

   

And then came the snorkelling session the highlight of the day. We held hands as we floated in the crystal-clear water, surrounded by a whole new world underwater. We saw schools of colorful fish swimming gracefully and… yes, we saw a real sea turtle! 🐢 It swam so close to us, peaceful and slow, as if it was showing us the beauty of the ocean. That moment felt magical  just the two of us, in silence, staring at something so simple yet so extraordinary. 😍

After that, we rested by the beach, took tons of photos (of course 😜), and just enjoyed each other’s company. No big crowds, no stress just soft waves, gentle sun, and deep conversations only best friends can share. This trip wasn’t about luxury or a perfect plan. It was about living in the moment, feeling free, and celebrating friendship. Sometimes, you don’t need a big group or fancy places. Just you, your closest girl, and a heart ready for adventure. 🩷🌟

   👛What’s In My Bag – Things I Never Leave Home Without👜

By Strawberryecah

They say a girl’s bag is full of secrets, but mine is full of just-in-case, must-have, and I swear I need this! kind of things 😆💼 So today, I thought I’d spill a little bit of what’s always in my bag because honestly, it says a lot about who I am.

💳 Purse / card holder

For IC, license, duit sikit (walaupun selalunya habis 🥲), and kad touch n go. My adulting starter pack.

🎧 Airpod

To escape, to feel, to vibe. Whether it’s calming lo-fi or sad girl playlist, it’s always with me.

💄 Lipmatte

My lips get dry super fast, so I can’t survive without one! Right now I’m loving my panna lab, it smells like vanilla and feels like magic ✨

🌸 Perfume 

Smell good, feel good. I don’t carry myself out the door without a spritz 💐

🧴 Mini hand sanitizer

You know… just being that clean girl 😌 Especially after touching public things, this baby saves me.

🧻 Tissue & wet wipes

Because being prepared is a love language, okay? 😌

Everyone’s bag tells a different story, but mine? It’s a little bit of comfort, a little bit of chaos, and a whole lot of me 💕

So… what’s in your bag, love? 🫶